Stop Blaming (Yourself)
By Hilary Jacobs Hendel, LCSW
In the words of Brene Brown, “Blame is a way we discharge pain. “
We blame others, hurling insults and digging our heels into the cushy comfort of self-righteous indignation. &nbs...
How to Avoid Being Emotionally Drained by the News
Many of us have ups and downs. We all encounter both good and bad things during the day. Sometimes it can be more of...
11 Ways to Destress After a Long Work Week
Destressing after a long week can be difficult to do, especially when you feel like you have no time to do it. I've been asked several times, "I have so many things to do. How much down time do I actually need?" The answer varies with each person and c...
The Gamble of Being Unapologetically Me
The Gamble of Being Unapologetically Me
I believe writing this article is similar to writing the directions to solve a Rubik’s cube
or giving someone the cheat codes to a complex video game. If you’ve ever used a cheat
code or go...
Adult + First Year of College = Stress
By Tamara J. Reeves, Ph.D.
You are Not Alone
I have been teaching college students for a long time. Two years ago, I made the transition to teaching
an entry level course at the University of Phoenix that is designed for new students who have been o...
Mind-Body Connections for Coping with Crisis
Mind-Body Connections for Coping with Crisis
The gun violence in Orlando, FL that claimed the lives of 50 people this week, as well as the ongoing epidemic of violent acts on civilians has unsettled many of us. How can we feel safe in the face...
Is it Just Stress, or is it Burn Out?
You wonder, “Is there a difference between the two?” When you are under stress, you can have temporary feelings of fatigue, anxiousness, moodiness and restlessness. These...
Why Self Care is so Important this Holiday Season
Holidays can be wonderful, though a struggle at the same time. Some people don't feel connected to their family. There are also people who...
Fear, Gloom, and Panic, Oh My!
In a recent post, I suggested that our survival instinct, which has served us so well for so long, may now be failing us. Why? because the reactions that arise as part of the fight-or-flight response are often no longer effective in a world that i...
Seven Ways to be Grateful this Holiday Season
The holiday season is thought of as a time to celebrate and spend time with loved ones. This can be difficult for many people...
































