How To Get Better Sleep When You Have Anxiety
When was the last time you had a good night’s sleep? If you have anxiety, chances are it’s been awhile. Anxiety is notoriously known for disrupting sleep, which can start a vicious cycle of more anxiety about not sleeping leading to even mo...
What the Shenanigans?!
This morning I was so angry, hurt, and flustered, that I had my first panic attack. Don’t judge… Even Jesus got angry (Matthew 21:12-13; Mark 3:5; Mark 11:15-18; John 2:13-22). His was a righteous anger. He had contempt for deliberate sin ...
A Mindful Approach to Quell Your Anxiety
Karma is created by the thought, the word and the deed. This means that in creating karma, the intention is as powerful as what we do. I say this to remind us that our intentions are a powerful influence on the course of our actions. And it all begins ...
Am I There Yet? Surviving Major Life Transitions
Do you remember watching those cartoons where the kids were in the back of the car screaming, “Are we there yet?!” This phrase can...
One Simple Tool To Work With Anxiety
Anxiety is a tricky emotion. It is a fearful response to an imagined situation, a self-imposed
deadline, or a hoped-for outcome that is not coming to fruition as quickly as planned. Or it is a
response to a perceived threat that may or may not manife...
6 Key Things You Can Do to Help your Loved Ones...
Experiencing the force of nature at its greatest can be terrifying. Some choose to stay and hold on while others choose to leave not knowing how their safe place called home will look once they return. Both experiences involve overwhelming ...
The Unattainable Standard For Men and Boys
By Hilary Jacobs Hendel, LCSW
Picture a twenty-four-year-old adorable, intelligent but anxious and insecure young man. Joe, as I will call him, often feels frightened. If he were to pause for a moment and check in with his physica...
Music As Therapy
Music As Therapy
Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, is an evidence based practice aimed at helping people reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety. CBT works through learning how what we say to ourselves has a direct correlation to h...
The Great Hidden Mindfulness Technique
Some time ago, I asked someone I trusted for advice on coping with emotional stress as I was going through a lot of big changes in my life. Even though the changes were mostly positive, I was anxious, worried, and physically tense. I rememb...
What Me Worry?: Why Worrying Does More Harm Than Good
Worry is a natural part of the human condition. It has historically played a vital role in our survival and it helps us cope with many of the challenges we face today. At the same time, worry that is too intense, too frequent, and too unrelenting can d...