Will It Be Important to Talk About Sex in Couples Therapy?
There are many valuable books about sex, sex therapy, and their role in a couple's relationship and in couples therapy. Some good examples include Passionate Marriage, Intimacy and Desire, and Resurrecting Sex, all of which were written by David Schnar...
Psychodynamic psychotherapy and active substance use
Active substance use, including marijuana consumption, can be problematic for psychodynamic and other uncovering types of psychotherapeutic treatments such as Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy...
Why Procrastination Should Not Be Linked with Failure
While many successful people can’t resist the urge to do things right away, countless others put things off until a deadline beckons them. High achievers put effort into their work and never miss deadlines, even though some may complete a task mi...
4 Behaviors That Lead Straight to Divorce
How to Save Your Marriage from These Relationship Killers.
Wouldn’t it be great to have a crystal ball and to be able to see all the avoidable problems in your marriage or relationship and do whatever it takes to keep love alive?
Actually, than...
Creating Awareness
Self awareness is one of our most precious skills as humans. It distinguishes us from other sentient beings and enables us to move past pain and suffering.
When we are in tune with our emotions, when we know why they arise, look at them without judgem...
Don’t be Fooled by the Anxiety Trick
Chronic Anxiety is a challenge for 18.1 percent of the US population, according to the NIMH. I’m of the opinion that most of the challenges people have with chronic anxiety are caused by what I refer to as “The Anxiety Trick.” I...
The Dark Underbelly of Psycho-Spiritual Change Models: Dangers and Pitfalls on...
The inspiration and backdrop for this textI was 19-years-old when I started to take an interest in finding a more authentic and...
Being in Crisis
It’s probably not surprising that as a psychiatric mental health provider, I work daily with people who are in crisis. Over the years, I’ve noticed that fewer and fewer people are aware they are in crisis when they come to see me. There are...
Male Factor Infertility: Its Potential Effect on Sex and Sexuality
“Doctor, I just don’t understand what’s happening to me,” Bob said as we began our first counseling meeting. “I love my wife, we have really pulled together with this infertility thing and I think we are closer than ever...
Parents: You’re Not Your Child’s Best Friend
I have worked with numerous families through the years, especially families of tweens and teens. If I never heard the following phrase again, especially coming from a mother or father of a teenager, I’d die one happy therapist:
“We...






























